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Lady and Ramba in the Barn

Lady continues to take steps forward in getting closer to the other girls. The video was taken after both girls had already been inside for 10-15 minutes. There are a few ‘best parts’ to this. The first one is Ramba was the one inside of the barn first. We let Ramba in to work on her feet, and Lady was close. Always looking to allow for opportunities for interactions when everyone is in a good place, we opened the barn up on the other side so Lady could come in if she wanted. After a few minutes of watching, she decided to walk in.

Her barn door remained open so that she could leave at any point. Initially, she stood watching for a minute, and then when Ramba moved, Lady went to leave. This time she stopped at the door on the way out of the barn. She stood for a moment as we told her it was ok, thought about it, then turned around and came back in. This is another ‘best part’ because this is the first time we have seen her stop and think about what she is doing instead of just responding.

There were a few other times she thought about leaving, but not in a hurried fashion. She went onto the patio at one point, stayed there for a couple of minutes, and then came back in again. This is also the first time Lady has watched one of the other girls get any treatment, which was interesting as well. Lady relaxed right into having Ramba in the next stall. As you can see in the video, Lady continues to eat her palm while Ramba dusts. Ramba ends up being a perfect ‘starter’ elephant for Lady because she’s not pushy with her affection, and she’s incredibly grounded, which allows Lady to feel more secure. And as you can also see, when Ramba steps towards Lady, Lady doesn’t back up or run away. She calmly continues to eat her palm as if nothing has changed.

All in all, this was a really lovely interaction between the two of them. It was all on Lady’s terms; she’s the one who initiated it, she stopped and thought, and ended up being calm throughout all of Ramba’s treatment and then some. Every elephant that comes to the sanctuary is different, and one of the keys to their healing is to acknowledge the individual, listen to what they show you, and adjust accordingly. While elephants like Rana were looking for a friend upon arrival, others will have to work up to trusting other elephants. Lady’s doing perfectly for her. Although being a herd member is an integral part of being an elephant, captivity causes many levels of damage, and this can be one. For her relationships to be healthy, she has to sort some things out, and sanctuary gives her the space, time, and respect to do just that.

Lady is in the far stall, Ramba close. And sorry about the changes in lighting, the camera tries to self adjust at times and goes a little crazy.

December 25, 2019

 

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    Sheila says

    BRAVO SWEET ❤️🐘🙏LIL LADY!!! IM SO PROUD OF U!! UR FINALLY GETTING IT THAT U CAN. BE AROUND OTHER ELEPHANTS👍👍! IM STARTING TO THINK MAYBE SHE HAD A HUGE CIRCUS BEATING WHEN SHE WAS. TRYING/ TO PLAY WITH ITHER ELEPHANTS ! SHE COULD REMEMBER THIS BEATING AND THATS WHY OTHER ELLIES MAKE HER FEAR, THERE US SUCH U KNOWN ABOUT HER ABUSE BUT SHES SO TIMID. I THINK ISSUE WAS VERY HURTFUL HOLDING HER BACK! GOD BLESS SWEET RAMBA FOR HER. ELDER UNDERSTANDING JUST TRYING TO BE A LIVING CALM FRIEND🐘❤️🙏

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    Susan says

    Another amazing video, thank you. Extra special close-up hello from Sweet Grandma Ramba made my Christmas 🥰 ! Love and Hugs to everyone! ❤️🐘❤️🐘❤️🐘❤️🐘❤️🐘❤️🐘🐘🐘🐘🐘

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    Kelehan says

    I love the way you are teaching us at the same time so that we understand completely what you are saying.

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    Lori Hoover says

    Oh, my heart. I am so happy for Lady, grateful to Ramba, and thankful for all of you allowing Lady the time and space. This made my day. Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and Happy Coming New Year!! The year already seems so promising.

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    Barb Wilson says

    This was a marvelous leap in the right direction for Lady. So nonchalantly hanging out with Ramba :o)! Simply a beautiful scene! This was a perfect way for me to relax and enjoy a quiet evening after lots of family celebrating today. Thanks for sharing these precious moments from ESB.

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    Carol Anderson says

    Did the Girls get any special treats for Christmas? Best wishes for a wonderful New Year to all of you.

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    Carey says

    yes I echo what Kelchan says, and it was wonderful to see, sweet Ramba is so calming

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